I’m not looking for attention or hunting for it. When I do get complimented, it is nice. Simple things like “You’re one of the prettiest girls I have seen.”, “When you smiled and I froze.”, “I don’t know why I didn’t talk to you sooner. You’re really nice.” I don’t get it often anymore, other than my girl friends for the last compliment. It isn’t always fun to be corrected every single convo or to be put down.
A lot of times it is nice when I hear “How are you?” or “How was school/work?” Small things can make almost any person smile. I like it. I want to love someone before I “correct” them on something God might be pointing out. They would be more open to take it in and to change. It is different person to person, but that is how I react.
| February 23, 2012 |